Author: Kris Seale

Day 30 – It’s Over!

Ladies and Gentlemen – it’s hard to believe, but my sabbatical has come to an end.  I must admit, I really need another week; I haven’t finished everything I wanted to do.  But at the same time, I’m ready to get back to work.

For whatever reason, I spent my last day watching most of the Donald Trump inauguration events.  I’ve never watched an inauguration before; I’ve only watched news programs, after the fact, that just provided snip-its.  But today, I specifically watched the entire swearing in ceremony.  It was very interesting to me.  I was encouraged by the number of Christian references throughout the ceremony.  And I couldn’t believe the remarks/prayer by Samuel Rodriguez – he reinforced the theme of our end-of-year event and the basis of our Sabbath year.  He read from Matthew chapter 5 (New Living Translation):

God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.
God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth.
God blesses those who hunger and thirst for justice, for they will be satisfied.
God blesses those who are merciful, for they will be shown mercy.
He blesses those whose hearts are pure, for they will see God.
God blesses those who work for peace, for they will be called the children of God.
God blesses those who are persecuted for doing right, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.
And God blesses you when people mock you and persecute you and lie about you and say all sorts of evil things against you because you are my followers.
For you are the light of the world — like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden.  No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on its stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house.  In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, that everyone will praise your heavenly Father. [emphasis added]
I could not imagine a better way to end my sabbatical than to have these words reemphasized to me.  I pray that your sabbatical will be as meaningful as mine.  And as you go, please remember – You are the light of the world, let your light shine and shine brightly!  Let’s MAKE SABBATICALS GREAT AGAIN!
Blessings, Kris

Day 28 – Back Home Again

Yesterday, Melinda and I returned from what we are referring to as “The Tour of Texas” – Abilene to Temple (Central Texas) to Houston to Rowlett (East of Dallas) to Ft. Worth and back to Abilene.  Approximately 800 miles!

On our last day of the “Tour,” Melinda and I got to see my sister.  She is in an Alzheimer’s care clinic in Ft. Worth, so I don’t get to see her often.  She started having symptoms of Alzheimer’s in 2011.  Physically she seems to be doing really well, but mentally, it’s a different story.  She doesn’t recognize us and her words are not understandable.  However, she’s still eating really well – I had the privilege of feeding her lunch.  Unfortunately, my family and I have experience with Alzheimer’s patients – my mother had Alzheimer’s from 2002 through 2009 when she passed away.  Alzheimer’s is a brutal disease.

For the last few days of my sabbatical, I will be catching up on my reading – I have a few chapters to more to complete In Pursuits of His Wisdom by R.T. Kendall, and I want to read a few more passages from the Patriot’s Library.  Other than reading, I will be finishing up a few projects and resting.  This sabbatical, while quite a bit different from my last one, has been outstanding – God has certainly blessed my time away from work.

Blessings, Kris

Day 26 – Another Awesome Day

Today was another blessing for me.  I started off this morning by sleeping until 8:00am, reading my Bible, and exercising,  My day got better at 11:30 when I watched my grandson, Graham, take a swimming lesson.  He did great, but he started crying when he noticed his Momo and Papa watching him – he wanted us closer to him.  Even though his tears were upsetting to me, it was good to know that he loved his grandparents so much that he would cry in order to be closer to us.

After having a nice lunch with our daughter and Graham, Melinda and I made the trek to Ft. Worth.  After having a nice walk around downtown Ft. Worth, we enjoyed a fantastic meal at Del Frisco’s Steakhouse – my favorite restaurant.  It was a wonderful evening – enjoying the time that my wife and I have been given because of this sabbatical.

Each day of my sabbatical becomes more meaningful.  I have found my smile, I have discovered relaxation, and I have become refreshed.  What a blessing!

Blessings, Kris

On My Last Week

I’ve been pretty busy since my last blog.  Allow me to give you a little re-cap:

  • Last Thursday, Melinda and I attended Dancing With The Abilene Stars – a benefit/fundraiser for Hendrick Home for Children, which assists orphans and struggling single moms and their children with housing and food. We had a good friend who was one of the amateur dancers, so we wanted to support her and to support Hendrick Home for Children.  Even though most of the dancing was not up to par with the real Dancing with The Stars, it was pretty good for Abilene – and raised a lot of money for a great cause.
  • On Friday, Melinda and I began our journey to Houston by stopping in Temple to see my nephew, Dylan. He has been at Scott & White hospital for the past 9 months – that’s right, 9 months!  He was born with lots of internal “plumbing” issues.  In fact, he has had more than 40 surgeries, and he has a transplanted kidney – he’s had lots of physical struggles in his 41 years of life.  We were able to spend a few hours with him, and we’re grateful because he seems to be making progress, and his spirits were really good.  Somehow, someway, God is working on, and through, Dylan.
  • Friday evening, Melinda and I went to a private party at my good friend’s (Michael Soper’s) home in Houston. We had a great time of fellowship with lots of my Legacy Funeral Group friends – by the way, business issues, as a topic of conversation, were avoided (as much as possible!).
  • Saturday morning, I met Michael for brunch, and we got caught up on each other’s lives. He mentioned that he could really see how my sabbatical had refreshed me.
  • Saturday afternoon, Melinda and I enjoyed some much needed time with each other – we explored the Galleria mall and just generally relaxed. It was a perfect afternoon.
  • Saturday night, we attended Michael’s 50th birthday party. It was a big party featuring the music of Pat Green (if you don’t know, he is a really good country artist who is renowned for “Texas music”).  It was a great party and very honoring to Michael.
  • Sunday, we started the trek to Rowlett, Texas to the home of my daughter and son-in-law. Even though January 8th is my grandson’s (Graham’s) birthday, we were celebrating today.  He turned 2 years old, and he’s definitely executing his freedom (if you know what I mean!).  We had lots of fun with our family.

OK, you should be up to speed on all that’s been going on with me.  We will be staying another two days in the DFW area, and I’ll be keeping you informed as things progress.

Blessings, Kris

Day 21 and 22 – Abilene Youth Sports Authority

The past two days have been filled with exercise, reading, catching up with friends, and  working with Jon Smith and the Abilene Youth Sports Authority (AYSA).  As most of you know, the AYSA and I have been working to fund a youth sports center for Abilene.  I have not had much time to work on the project, recently, so I felt like my sabbatical would be a good time to get after it.

Honestly, I have felt fairly lukewarm about the project – simply put, it seems that we have not been getting any traction on our fundraising efforts.  I’ve wondered if the youth sports center is really something that God has wanted me to be involved in or if it was something that I really wanted personally (regardless of what God wanted).  So, last Friday, I asked God, “Is this something that You really want me to work on or not?”  God may communicate to you audibly, but He doesn’t communicate with me that way.  When He chooses to communicate with me, it’s usually through impressions – and most of the time, I’m not sure if it’s His impressions or just thoughts I have on my own.

But this time, God seemed to be communicating to me loud and clear.  On Monday, I received a phone call that was a clear message that we should move forward.  On Tuesday, I had a meeting with a prominent local official that further reinforced what I learned on Monday.  And then today, I had a meeting with a local business owner that took everything I had learned Monday and Tuesday and multiplied it.  So, over three days, God gave me three very clear messages that the youth sports center is something that deserved my attention – as long as I was honoring Him!

I wish I could provide more details, but I can’t.  It’s a little premature to provide more information than this.  So, I’ll leave you in suspense – for now!

1 John 5:14-15 says, “And this is the confidence that we have toward Him, that if we ask anything according to His will He hears us.  And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of Him.”  Based on what happened this week, these two verses mean more to me than ever.

Blessings, Kris

Day 20 – A New Era

Today was full of catch up items for me.  I had to make/return several phone calls; I had to work on my family budget; and I had to catch up on some reading.

This evening, Melinda and I had dinner at Cypress Street Station with Jeff Green (Brian Green’s brother – for those of you who don’t know, Brian owned Cypress Street and was one of my best friends until his death a little over 2 years ago).  Jeff had called me last week and said that he really needed to talk with Melinda and me, and he asked us to dinner.  I had heard rumors that the Greens were considering selling the restaurant, so I figured that Jeff wanted to tell me personally – since Brian and I were such good friends and since Cypress Street has played such a major role in many of my life events.  My suspicions were correct.

The Greens had made the decision to sell Cypress Street for two reasons:  1) Their family had a strong desire to carry on Brian’s legacy, but none of them had true restaurant experience and 2) Jeff had found a young couple who were very interested in operating the restaurant and maintaining Brian’s legacy.  Jeff introduced the new owners – Terry and Amanda O’Connor.  Amanda is from Coleman and Terry is from Chicago.  They met while both of them were involved in management of Uncle Julio Mexican Restaurants.  Later, they were involved in management of Ruth’s Chris restaurants.  Now, they’re interested in owning their own restaurant and establishing roots in a smaller community.

The O’Connors seem to be extremely service-oriented.  They’re very interested in becoming part of our community and honoring what Brian had established in Cypress Street Station.  Today, a new era begins!

The conversation with Jeff was heartwarming.  We shared stories about Brian and reflected on the legacy he had left, not only at Cypress Street but also throughout our community.  I must admit, a few tears were shed as we discussed the future – without Brian and without the Greens involvement in Cypress Street.  Again, as Dr. Alan Wolfelt says in order to move forward, you need to look back.

Blessings, Kris

Day 19 – A Wonderful Sunday

At our company’s end of year event, Dr. Alan Wolfelt talked about the importance of going back before moving forward.  He was stressing the importance of sharing memories and thoughts about your deceased loved one before you can really move forward in life.  At church this morning, our pastor, David McQueen, discussed, “To face the future with courage we must regularly recount God’s Faithfulness in the past” – to move forward, you need to go back.

David made some really good points this morning:

  • The temptation, when looking at a future that is uncertain and difficult, is to forget what God has done and look at our own strengths to face the future.
  • And when we rely on ourselves, we begin to succumb to cowardice and quit living with faith and courage.
  • Revelation 12:11 says, “They overcame the enemy by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.”
  • What is the word of our testimony?  It is what God has done – how God has been faithful.
  • The journey of faith is one of steps, taking our next steps with Jesus, whatever they might be.
  • Sometimes those steps, often those steps, stretch and challenge us.
  • The temptation is to forget (or at least minimize) how we got where we are and face the days to come on our own.
  • And when we fall prey to self-reliance, fear begins to replace courage, cowardice becomes our norm instead of valor.
  • To deal with an uncertain and, at times, difficult future, we have to look back, remember the work of God, and tell the stories – recounting the faithfulness of God. [emphasis added]

It is extremely important to look back on your life and see how God has been faithful, and David’s sermon really caused me to reflect.  God has been so, so good to me.  The memory that kept coming to mind was the time in 2002 when I went to the mountains with 4 other men in order to study “Wild At Heart,” a book by John Eldredge.  This retreat challenged me to choose Christ in every area of my life.  Consequently, I came back and decided to make changes to our business, to the way I loved my wife, to the way I disciplined/loved my children, and generally, to the way I approached life.  This Wild At Heart retreat literally changed the way I approached my life.

So, my question for you is this:  How has God worked in your life and shown himself faithful – what story from your past needs to be retold?”  Please take some time this week and answer this question.

Blessings, Kris

Day 18 – Interesting Question

In Pursuit of His Wisdom, the book I’m reading authored by Dr. R.T. Kendall, is proving to be a fantastic book.  In my reading today, Dr. Kendall asked an intriguing question that I had to share with you.  It’s a question that has crossed my mind before, but I never pressed myself for an answer – until today!

First, a little background:  Exodus 33:12-13 says, Moses said to the Lord, “See, you say to me, ‘Bring up this people,’ but you have not let me know whom you will send with me. Yet you have said, ‘I know you by name, and you have also found favor in my sight.’  Now therefore, if I have found favor in your sight, please show me now your ways, that I may know you in order to find favor in your sight….” [emphasis added].   1 Kings 3:5-6, 9 says, “Ask for whatever you want me to give you.”  Solomon answered… “Give your servant a discerning heart to govern you people and to distinguish between right and wrong.” [emphasis added].

Dr. Kendall expounded on these two passages, “The Two scenarios regarding Moses and Solomon are similar.  Each of them could ask God for anything – and get what they wanted.  And although their answers were pleasing to God, there is a subtle difference between them.  Moses’s request: to know God’s ways in order to maintain divine favor.  Solomon’s: to discern between right and wrong in governing the people of Israel.  Why is this comparison important?  It shows two kinds of wisdom:

  1. Theological wisdom – that of Moses
  2. Practical wisdom – what Solomon received”

Here was the question that Dr. Kendall asked and that intrigues me, “Have you ever fantasized that God might come to you as He did to Moses and Solomon and give you a proposition:  ‘Ask for anything you want and you shall have it?’….  So what would you say to God  if He said to you, ‘What do you want Me to do for you?”

OK, so now it’s your turn to answer the question:  If you could have anything you want from God – and knew He would give it, what would you ask for?  Think about it….

Blessings, Kris

Day 17 – Last Day

Today was my last day at Love & Care Ministries, it was a cold one!  Our weather was crazy cold here in Abilene – it was 16 degrees on my way to Love & Care with wind chill factors in the single-digits.

When I walked into the kitchen this morning, the talk was all about the weather and its effect on our friends (the homeless and poor of Abilene).  We had a normal breakfast crowd, but the majority wanted to stick around in order to stay in the warm dining hall.  Janet, my boss, made the wise decision to leave the doors open so that all of our friends could remain out of the cold.

After breakfast, we began preparing for lunch.  Grilled cheese and tomato soup was on the menu.  So, we had to make somewhere in the neighborhood of 2 million grilled cheese sandwiches – well, maybe more like 200!!!  My job was to butter the bread and bake cookies – I was pretty good at buttering the bread, but not so good at the cookies.  However, we got it all done.

We had a few unique things happen today: 1) I had to assist one of our friends jump start his pickup truck, 2) A homeless band came into the dining hall and entertained our friends, 3) One of our homeless friends needed a place to get out of the cold, and he was having some anxiety; so we made sure that he got a hotel room to get out of the cold, and 4) We got word that one of our friends was passed out in a parking lot not far from the kitchen – Janet and I went to help him; Janet woke him up, and we gave him some food and made sure he was alright.  It was a wild day.

I ended my service with Love & Care at 1:30pm.  On my way out, I received lots of hugs and well wishes.  I admit it, I was a little emotional when I left.  I really enjoyed my time there, and I learned so much.  I’m taking away two things:

  1. I was reminded of how important it is to love people, no matter what.  Jesus called us to love people, not  to judge them and not to change them – He specifically and only said to love them!
  2. What a joy it is to work with passionate, caring, loving, and service-oriented people.  The true stars at Love & Care for me were Janet, Lacey, Bones, and Larry – they work hard, and they are passionate about helping anyone and everyone.

God really blessed my time at Love & Care!

Blessings, Kris

Day 16 – Love and Care

As I type L-o-v-e and C-a-r-e, it’s easy for me to understand why they named this ministry Love & Care.  Today started, as usual, serving breakfast, but something different happened today.  Some of the regulars who come in for a hot breakfast started recognizing me – as if I was really becoming their friend.  I must admit, it felt good.

I really love my boss, Janet.  She tries to come off as tough, but she is absolutely one of the most loving and caring people that I know.  If you have been reading my blogs, you know that we went on a “street feed” last night, and Janet identified some people that needed more than just food.  So today, Janet sent Bones (the chief culture officer and donation pick-up man) and I to two places that we visited last night.  One place that we visited had no heat, so Janet arranged, and Bones and I took, this family two space heaters (the temperatures will be in the teens in Abilene tonight!).  In the other place, Janet knew that a grandmother needed groceries for the weekend, as she attempts to care for her 11 grandchildren – in a home that has no more than 1,000 square feet!  So, Bones and I delivered her some groceries.  As you can tell, when Janet sees a need, she wants to take care of it immediately – she has “A BIAS FOR ACTION” – a lady after my own heart!

While Bones and I were out, we got a call that the Cancer Center wanted to donate some food.  So, we headed to Hendrick Medical Center.  While we were there, I bumped into a good friend of mine – we go way back; we played high school basketball together, but I had not seen him in a few years.  I knew that he worked at Hendrick Medical Center as a pharmacist, but he was sitting in the waiting room of the Cancer Center.  So, I asked, ” What are you doing here?”  He said, “Well, Kris, I have been diagnosed with a non-aggressive type of leukemia.”  My heart just sank.  I asked him to tell me about it, and he proceeded to open up and give me the details.  He seemed to really need someone to listen, and I’m grateful that I had the time.  If I had not been on sabbatical, this encounter would have never taken place – God is good!  Please pray for my friend, Mark Preston!

I had another outstanding sabbatical day!  I sign off today with a very grateful heart!

Blessings, Kris

Day 15 – A Full Day of Love and Care

Today was a full day at Love & Care Ministries.  I started at 7:15am by serving breakfast to our “friends” (the homeless and poor of Abilene).  Then, we prepared for lunch and served it.  For the next several hours after lunch, Janet (my boss) led us and helped us prepare 100 meals for an evening “street feed” – where we take meals to the people on the street.

I left Love & Care at 2:45pm, rested for a couple of hours, and then, Melinda (my wife) and I drove back to Love & Care for the “street feed” – I was really happy to have Melinda join in.  Janet, Lacey (my co-worker in the kitchen), Larry (the leader of the food pantry), and Keith (a regular volunteer) joined Melinda and me.  We spent two hours delivering all of the meals we prepared, coats, blankets, gloves, and hats to a few homeless people and lots of poor people who simply need a little help.

I must admit, I always have some trepidation before we hit the street, but when we’re done, it feels so good.  Tonight, it felt like we accomplished something positive, and we really blessed people.  It’s truly amazing how serving, helping, and blessing others actually blesses you more!  God is so good!

I have two more days with Love & Care, and I’m sure that my days will be full and exciting.

Blessings, Kris

Day 14 – Back at Love and Care

This morning I arrived at Love and Care Ministries’ kitchen sharply at 7:15am to serve breakfast.  It was really good to see my new friends again – they have really welcomed me in and made feel like I’m part of their team.  The breakfast crowd seemed a little light, but steady.  Once we finished breakfast, it was time to start working on lunch.

At 10:00a.m., Mark Hewitt came by to pick me up – we had plans to go visit Love & Care’s Merkel, Texas location and Clyde, Texas (home of Craig Loper and Elaine Edwards, among others) location.  Mark is the Executive Director and founder of Love & Care, and we have been friends for more than 15 years.  It was good to catch up with Mark and to ask him some questions about his ministry.  At lunch, we talked about our faith journeys.

My big question for Mark was, “How do we make a bigger impact on our friends – how do we help the homeless and poor move beyond their current status?”  He was very candid with his answer.  He said that he had thought about this question often, but he felt strongly that God simply wanted him and his ministry to love the homeless and the poor, not to try to fix them or their situation.  He said, “Sure, there are those who want help to move out of their situation, and for them, we do everything we can to help them.”  But he emphasized that, for most of them, they need Jesus – He is the first thing they need to find in order to move beyond homelessness, addiction, alcoholism, prostitution, etc.

I explained to Mark that what he saw with our friends is exactly what I saw in India seven years ago.  The only way that the extreme poverty in India could be resolved is with the help of Jesus – He is the only way when it comes to impossible situations!  As a side note, our friends who come for breakfast and lunch at Love & Care are significantly better off than most of the people I met in India.

I closed my day by having a long conversation with my good friend and pastor, David McQueen.  We shared and talked about all that was going on with my sabbatical, and as usual, he gave me some really good perspectives on what I had been experiencing.  It was really good to have some time to have an intimate conversation with him.

I would have to say that I am entering the best phase of sabbatical – where my eyes, my ears, and my heart are open, and I have the time and capacity to really listen and converse on a much deeper level.  I’m finding myself again because I’m not strapped for time and I’m not worried about the next meeting on my agenda.  It is very freeing!  As John 8:36 says, “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”

Blessings, Kris

Day 12-13 – Catch-up and Rest

Over the past few days, I have made every attempt to catch up on my reading and on my rest.  For my sabbatical, I committed to reading In Pursuit of His Wisdom by Dr. R.T. Kendall and excerpts from The Patriot’s Library (writings by America’s most noted patriots).  Needless to say, I’ve had trouble making time for reading, but I made some really good progress over the holiday weekend.

In The Patriot’s Library, I read “The Declaration of Independence,” “The Articles of Confederation,”The Constitution,” and “The Amendments to the Constitution.”  Reading through these historical and vital documents made me realize that every U.S. citizen should read them once every year or two.  Our founding fathers were incredibly thoughtful, insightful, and wise.  Our Constitution is very clearly written, which makes me wonder why there are always legal battles over it.

In Pursuit of His Wisdom is a book that requires lots of introspective thinking.  But as usual, Dr. Kendall diligently and beautifully takes complex matters and makes them simple to understand (and I need simplicity when it comes to the things of God!).  Dr. Kendall says, “Wisdom is getting God’s opinion.  For true wisdom is God’s opinion.  God’s glory is His opinion.  The root word of the Greek “doxa” (glory) means opinion.  True wisdom, then, is God’s opinion….  He therefore should be consulted first when we are wanting to know the next step forward.”

It’s funny (peculiar, not ha-ha) how God brings things to light and provides what I would call “Godly coincidences” while on sabbatical.   Yesterday, I got a text message from a friend; it said among other things, “I felt negative energy from you during our EOY week (referring to our company’s year-end meetings and events in December)…. If I hadn’t been reading your blog I would never have felt that I could share that with you….”  I responded that more than likely what was perceived as “negative energy” was total fatigue – I was worn out from a very difficult year (is anyone else glad to see 2016 go?)!  Then, today, I read this from In Pursuit of His Wisdom, “We should take full advantage of wise people God places in our paths.  We all need good mentors.  We also need friends who will lovingly but candidly tell us things we need to hear.” (emphasis added).  I’m appreciative that a good friend would tell me, lovingly but candidly, what I needed to hear – and her/his perception of me was more accurate than I want to confess, judging from how tired I was.

My point is this, it’s amazing to see God work through our sabbatical plans!

Blessings, Kris

Day 11 – A Needed Day of Rest

After an action-packed week at Love & Care Ministries, it was nice to have a day of rest.  In fact, I slept a solid 9 hours last night – I cannot remember the last time I did that!

I’m finally feeling like my mind, my body, and my soul are relaxed.  I have found “…the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding….”  (Philippians 4:7).  And after spending a week at Love & Care, my heart is overflowing – I am eternally grateful for what God has done for me. I am blessed beyond all measure.  For whatever reason, God’s hand has been on me throughout my life – He has protected me, He has guided me, and He has strengthened me.  To Him be the glory!

As I reflected today on my first week with Love & Care, I kept coming back to what Jesus said was the greatest of the commandments, “…You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself” (Luke 10:27).  Jesus made it simple for us – Love Him and love others.  We are not here to judge other people or to look down on them; we’re here to love others by serving them.  Jesus made the precepts of life simple for us, but for whatever reason, we do everything we can to complicate it.

I pray that all of us will humble ourselves and serve/love Him and serve/love others each and every day of our lives.

Blessings and Happy New Year!!!  Kris

Day 10 – Day 5 at Love and Care

It was another great day at Love & Care Ministries!  We started out this morning by serving more than 100 pancakes to our “friends” (the name that the leader of Love & Care, Mark Hewitt, has given to the homeless and poor that come for help).  This morning, it felt like things were getting back to normal – Janet, my boss, was in the kitchen all day (after the passing of her father), and Anthony was back from his illness.

After breakfast, Janet asked me to accompany Bones (Thad Oxford) to pick up some food donations.  In particular, we picked up over 550 pounds of deer meat from Stephens Processing – Brent Stephens calls these types of donations “Hunters for the Hungry.”  We also made pick-ups at United Grocery Store, Golden Chick, and McKay’s Bakery.  Bones makes regular stops at these locations plus several others, and these businesses always come through with tons of food donations throughout the year.  It is truly a blessing to live in a community that is extremely generous!

In addition to picking up food, Bones and I had a great conversation about life, about spiritual matters, and about blessings.  Bones has an incredible testimony, and he brings passion, happiness, joy, and energy to Love & Care.  He is the Chief Culture Officer for the organization.  Since, at one time, he was homeless, he has a special connection with our “friends.”

For lunch, we served more than 100 people – the Friday crowd is normally smaller than any other day.  Even so, our “friends” really appreciated a warm meal on a fairly cold day in Abilene.

Once we cleaned up after lunch, it was time to go home – nothing to prepare, since the kitchen will be closed through Monday.

What a great week!  I’m tired, but it’s a good tired.  I have learned so much in one week – I’m truly humbled!  I look forward to learning more next week.  Stay tuned!

Blessings, Kris

Day 9 – Day 4 at Love & Care Ministries

I walked into the kitchen of Love & Care Ministries this morning, and there was Janet (the boss).  She was back on the job doing her normal routine (even though her father had passed away yesterday).  I knew she we would be there because she handles grief the way I do – “get back to work, back to a familiar routine, and process the loss away from family.”  She’ll be in the kitchen, again, in the morning – I’m sure of it.

This morning we served breakfast to 50-60 homeless and working poor – Cream of Wheat, toast and jelly.  For lunch, we had the biggest crowd I’ve seen – over 300!  My co-worker, Lacee, had warned me that lunch on Thursday was always crowded.  We started serving at 11:30am and the line for lunch did not slow down until 12:30pm.  It was crazy.

Before lunch, I went with Larry, the boss of the food pantry, to the warehouse to pick up food supplies for the food pantry.  No need for an upper body workout today – I had a fantastic workout with “P-90L” (“L” stands for Larry).  We transported hundreds of pounds of canned goods – loading them on the truck at the warehouse and taking them off the truck at the food pantry.  Once again, 40 degrees outside, and I was sweating profusely (I know that’s a shocker to most of you!).

Today, I really felt like my presence was felt and necessary for several reasons:

  • Larry really needed my help moving all that food!
  • Janet and I had a chance to talk, and I could really see her processing her father’s death.
  • Two volunteers that normally come on Thursdays did not show up.
  • Anthony, our co-worker called in sick today (he left early yesterday because of illness).
  • The “friends” that we serve are beginning to be comfortable with me.

The one thing that is really illustrated to me every day is how grateful the vast majority of our friends are for what we do for them.  Yes, there are a few that have bad attitudes, but far more than 90% of the people we serve are grateful and appreciative.  Knowing their circumstances, it’s hard for me to believe how thankful they are.  God is definitely present at Love & Care Ministries.

Blessings, Kris

Day 8 – Day 3 at Love and Care

Today got off to a rocky start.  I walked into the kitchen at 7:15am, and the mood was very somber.  I noticed that Bones and Larry, two of the key people at Love & Care, were serving breakfast, and Janet was nowhere to be found.  I asked, “Where’s Janet (the boss)?”  Bones turned to me and said, “Janet’s dad passed away this morning.”  We knew that he was not doing very well – lung cancer – but he was supposed to live a few more weeks.  So, everyone there was heartbroken for Janet – none of us knew her dad, but all of us respect Janet and had sympathy for her.  Please pray for her and her family.

The breakfast crowd was much lighter than yesterday, but we still served about 75 people.  After breakfast, we began preparations for the lunch crowd.  Since Janet wasn’t around, we were a little discombobulated, but we managed to put it together.  Lacee (26 years old) really came through – she knew what to do.  We also got help from another volunteer, Keith Jenkins.  Everyone seemed to step up and take on more responsibility.

Then, before we served lunch, another member of our team, Anthony, had to leave because he was not feeling well.  So, we were really short-handed.  Fortunately, Keith agreed to come back and bring his son to help serve, and thankfully, he is a man of his word.  We had a really big lunch crowd!  We didn’t have a single break in the line for 45 minutes.  I think that we probably served far more than 200.

Since Anthony was ill, I was given one of his post-lunch responsibilities – cleaning the restrooms!  I must admit, I haven’t cleaned restrooms in a while, but it came back to me pretty quick.  Much to my surprise, the restrooms were pretty clean – I really thought they would be extremely dirty, but they weren’t!

After restroom duty, Lacee asked me to help her make the salad for tomorrow’s lunch – and yes, I washed my hands really good!  I cut up vegetables, and we got the salad ready to go.  That was the last task of the day.

I went over to the food pantry to ask Larry if he needed any help, and he said that they were caught up.  So, I left a little earlier today.  Again, with the death of Janet’s father, everyone was heavyhearted, and once we finished serving lunch and cleaning up, I think that all of us took a deep breath and were glad that we survived without our leader.

Blessings, Kris

Day 7 – Day 2 at Love and Care

Well, I made it through day 2 at Love & Care Ministries!  And it was a great day!

The day started early again – 7:15am.  When I got to the kitchen, I noticed that lots of people were already there for breakfast. So, I hopped right in to help – Janet (my boss) allowed me to step in for her in the serving line.  Today, we had considerably more “friends” (the term we use for the people that come in for free meals).  We had over 100 for breakfast!

After breakfast, Mark Hewitt, the Executive Director of Love & Care, conducted a staff devotional. He challenged us to show more love to our friends and to engage them more. It was a wonderful message to get all of us focused.

After the devotional, we went back to the kitchen where Janet directed our preparation for the lunch crowd.  I had to cut away for a while in order to help Larry, the manager of the food pantry, unload approximately a gazzilion cases of various bottled drinks. Let’s put it this way, it was about 40 degrees this morning, and by the time we had finished unloading the drinks, I was sweating like crazy!  It was a great workout!

By the time I had finished helping Larry, it was just about time to serve lunch – 11:30 to 1:00.  We had a much bigger crowd for lunch as compared to yesterday – close to 200!  While we were serving lunch, Janet began preparing “to-go boxes” for an afternoon delivering meals on the street.

At about 1:30pm, Janet said, “Let’s go!”  So we (3 volunteers, Janet and Larry) loaded up a truck with 84 meals and over 120 drinks, and we hit the streets delivering meals to anyone that we identified as homeless.  In addition, we stopped by a few motels that Janet knew housed some people that really needed a meal. To end the day, we stopped by an extremely modest home (an overstatement) to deliver the remainder of our meals and drinks to a grandmother that was taking care of 11 grandchildren – that’s not a misprint, 11 grandchildren!

Today, Janet taught me a few valuable lessons:

  1. Know the people – Janet really knew the people we delivered meals to.
  2. Love the people – Janet loved on everyone we saw.
  3. Don’t judge the people – Janet showed no judgement, even though we saw some people that were not the most respectable of people (to say the least).
  4. Bless the People – Janet made sure that before we left each person, we blessed them (each person  knew that we were there in the name of Jesus).

Another wonderful day at Love & Care!

Blessings, Kris

Day 6 – 1st Day at Love and Care

Today was my first day to work with Love & Care ministries, and it was a great day!  Love & Care provides meals and clothing to the homeless and poor of Abilene, and our community is privileged to have such a wonderful organization.

I have been assigned to the kitchen.  When I showed up this morning, at 7:10am, I met my boss, Janet.  Janet was incredibly patient with me all day long.  I know this is hard to believe, but I’m not accustomed to serving 200 meals a day!  She is one of the most organized, confident, caring, and strong leaders I’ve met in quite some time.  She definitely knows what she’s doing!

We prepared and served somewhere in the neighborhood of 200 meals today, and according to Janet, it was a slow day!  The best part of my day was working with and getting to know my co-workers.  Lacee, Anthony, Bones, and Larry were outstanding today – they are very hard working people and extremely helpful.  I asked each one to tell me their story, and they were very open with me.  Each story was unique and compelling; reminding me that we all have struggles in life, but with the help of Jesus, everyone can find their calling and have success.

As I reflected on my day with Love & Care, I thought of the words of Jesus:

Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.  For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me,  I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’  Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink?  And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you?  And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’  And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

Blessings, Kris

Day 4 – It really is Saturday!

Ok, I can say it for certain, “It’s Saturday!”  So, I can actually say with confidence that it feels like Saturday.  But it’s not just any Saturday, it’s Christmas Eve!

All families have their Christmas traditions, and one of ours is attending our church’s Christmas Eve service. It’s always a wonderful, moving experience!  To close the service each year, we sing Silent Night and light candles – it is an awesome sight!  This year, it was even more awesome because just before we started singing Silent Night, one of our pastors, Randy Turner, read this passage from the Bible, “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden.  Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house.  In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven”  (Matthew 5:14-16). This should sound familiar to most of you – this was the passage used at our company end-of-year meeting to launch our Sabbath Year, a few weeks ago.

I tried to take a picture of what it looked like once everyone had their candle lit, but the pictures I took did not do justice to this special moment.  However, Randy Turner shot a video from his vantage point on the platform.  Here is the link so that you can see, and maybe feel, the moment:  https://www.facebook.com/randyandbobbieturner/posts/10211771908522593.  Everyone is letting their light shine before others!

I’m grateful that my church has such a meaningful Christmas Eve service.  It really sets the mood for the true meaning of Christmas Day.

Blessings, Kris

Day 3 – Finding Rest

Today, I found rest.  For the first time, since I can remember, I slept a solid 9.5 hours last night.  I guess I can finally say that my mind is at rest, and my soul is at rest.  I was reminded of Matthew 11:28-30 which says:

Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

I guess I gave up today, I turned it over to Him, and I took on His yoke.

I’m extremely grateful for this time to dial it back and to learn to rest again.  It’s a blessing to break the routine, to do something different, and to relax my mind.  God is good!

Blessings, Kris

Day 2 – Still feels like Saturday!

Today was another great day!  I slept in this morning until 8:00; I read my Bible passages; I got my exercise in; I had a long lunch with my pastor and good friend David McQueen; I studied ethics for my CPA continuing education; and I read The Mayflower Compact, The Declaration of Independence, and The Articles of Confederation from The Patriot’s Library.  A very good day – but it still felt like Saturday!

The good news is I’m starting to relax. I can feel myself calming down and settling in.  I think it will take another two or three days before I fully adjust – but I will adjust.

Until tomorrow…

Blessings, Kris

Day 1 – Is it Saturday???

Honestly, today has felt like Saturday – all day long.  Just like my sabbatical in 2010, it’s going to take a few days for the idea of 30 straight days off to kick in, but I know it will.

Here are a few things that I plan to do over the next 30 days:

  1. Sleep and sleep well – Let’s face it, 2016 has been a hectic year, and frankly, I’m tired!
  2. Continue my quest to read the Bible over two years – I’m one year into it, and I’m on pace!
  3. Fast all alcohol, processed sugar, and bread.
  4. Exercise 45 minutes to an hour each day – combining the 21 Day Fix, abs work, yoga, and light running.
  5. Work with Love & Care Ministries – feeding and clothing the homeless and poor of Abilene.
  6. Read “In The Pursuit of Wisdom” and read some of the pieces from “The Patriot’s Library.”
  7. To attend a couple of birthday parties – a good friend in Houston (celebrating his 50th) and my grandson (celebrating his 2nd).

I hope that by going public with my plans, all of you will hold me accountable.

I really appreciate all of your prayers, and I know that God is going to be working in me and through me.

Blessings, Kris

My Sabbatical Is Here!

I can’ believe it, but my sabbatical begins in less than 8 hours!  It’s exciting.  I must admit, I’m a little anxious, but I know it will be good.  I truly need a break, and I need your prayers!

Well, stay tuned.  I will attempt to blog often.

Blessings, Kris

Our Last Day in Israel

As we all know, good things must come to an end – even if you are in Jerusalem!

Once again, we started early and headed to Yad Vashem Holocaust Memorial and Museum (Yad Vashem means “a place and a name”).  We spent almost two hours here, and it was not near enough.  This museum tells the story of the Holocaust from start to finish.  As a museum, Yad Vashem has lots of items on display from this horrible era which are very interesting.  However, what was most interesting to me were the stories of the Holocaust survivors.  As we walked through the museum, kiosks were set up along the way with videos playing of interviews from actual survivors. They described in detail and through tears the atrocities that the Nazis had committed on them and their families.  It was extremely moving and very difficult to watch.  That being said, I think that everyone should go through this museum or watch a documentary on the Holocaust at least once a year – in order to remember what happened and to never let such things happen ever again!

From Yad Vashem, we went to Hezekiah’s  Tunnel.  Hezekiah’s Tunnel is a tunnel that was dug underneath the City of David (located just South of the Southern Wall of the Old City)before 701B.C. during the reign of Hezekiah. The tunnel is mentioned in 2Kings 20:20 in the Bible. The Bible also tells us that King Hezekiah prepared Jerusalem for an impending siege by the Assyrians, by “blocking the source of the waters of the upper Gihon, and leading them straight down on the west to the City of David” ( 2 Chronicles 32). The tunnel has been dated both by the written inscription found on its wall (Siloam Inscription), and by dating organic matter contained in the original plastering. It is one of the few intact, 8th century BC structures in the world that the public can not only visit, but enter and walk through.  The tunnel, leading from the Gihon Spring to the Pool Siloam was designed as an aqueduct to provide Jerusalem with water during an impending siege by the Assyriams. The curving tunnel is 533 meters long, and by using a 30 cm (0.6‰) gradient altitude difference between each end, conveyed water along its length from the spring to the pool.

Believe it or not, many of us walked through Hezekiah’s Tunnel, including me.  I found out a few things while I was walking through the still functioning aqueduct: 1) The people who chiseled this tunnel were very smart – According to the Siloam inscription, the tunnel was excavated by two teams, one starting at each end of the tunnel and then meeting in the middle – later, I found out that the difficult feat of making two teams digging from opposite ends meet far underground was accomplished by directing the two teams from above using sounds generated by hammering on the solid stone through which the tunnelers were digging; 2) The water was clean, clear, and cold; and 3) Jewish men of that day were very short – I left some skin and blood from the top of my head in Hezekiah’s Tunnel!  This was one of those experiences that everyone should do once in their lifetime (and for me, once is enough!).

Next, we went through the Jaffa gate of the Old City (in the Christian quarter) and climbed stairs to the top of the Old City wall.  We walked along the wall and came to a place where we stopped and individually prayed over the city of Jerusalem.  It was an awesome and solemn time for me to pray for the city and its people.

Then, we went to Ben Yehuda Street which is a modern area of Jerusalem for some shopping and lunch.

We walked from Ben Yehuda Street for a few blocks to what is known as the Garden Tomb.  The Garden Tomb is located just outside the Old City walls and close to the Damascus Gate, and is a rock-cut tomb considered by some to be the actual site of the burial and resurrection of Jesus, in contradistinction to the traditional site – the Church of the Holy Sepulcher.  The Church of the Holy Sepulchre has its tomb just a few yards away from its Golgotha, corresponding with the account of John the Evangalist: “Now in the place where he was crucified there was a … new tomb” (John 19:41).  However, in 1869 a number of tombs had been found near the Garden Tomb which is adjacent to a solid rock structure that resembled (a still resembles) a skull, which is the meaning of the word Golgotha, and it was concluded that one of the tombs discovered must have been the tomb of Jesus.  John also specifies that Jesus’ tomb was located in a garden; consequently, an ancient wine press and cistern have been cited as evidence that the area had once been a garden, and the somewhat isolated tomb adjacent to the cistern has become identified as the Garden Tomb of Jesus. This particular tomb also has a stone groove running along the ground outside it, which could have been a slot that once housed a stone, corresponding to the Biblical account of a stone being rolled over the tomb entrance to close it.

In addition, the Garden Tomb has a different arrangement than other Jewish tombs found from the period – normally, Jewish tombs were long, not wide, with the body’s location at the end of the long tomb.  The Garden Tomb is wide not long, the only tomb found from the period like this, with the location for the body to the right (once you walk in the tomb).  And in the Gospel of Mark (16:5-6), it is written, “And  entering the tomb, they saw a young man sitting at the right, wearing a white robe; and they were amazed.  And he said to them, ‘Do not be amazed; you are looking for Jesus the Nazarene, who has been crucified.  He is risen; He is not here; behold, here is the place where they laid Him.'”  Obviously, there is debate about the true location of the burial and resurrection of Jesus, but we concluded that the true location is really unimportant – the important thing is that Jesus died for us, was buried, and did rise again!  With this in mind, we had a time of worship and communion in the garden of the Garden Tomb!  It was a very meaningful and moving experience!

We returned to our hotel, where we cleaned up and had dinner before leaving for the airport.

At the airport, my family and I were talking about our experience in Israel.  All of us agreed that the best part of our trip had been the kids’ camp – it was something that we did that had eternal significance!  Then, the question was raised, “how did the trip to Israel compare to other family vacations?”  Amanda, my oldest daughter, immediately said, “I think this was the best family vacation that we have ever had”!  Considering that we have taken at least one vacation per year for most of her life and that she has been to some pretty phenomenal places in her life (including Tahiti, Paris, London, and Scotland to name a few), this was a bold and significant statement.  The rest of my family agreed with Amanda!

After more than 24 hours, we are back in Abilene.  My bed and my pillow felt awesome last night!  I am glad to me home, and I am grateful that God allowed me to take my family to Israel – it was an experience of a lifetime!  I am also grateful that I have an excellent team that has taken care of our business while I was gone – without them, there is no way I could have gone on a 15 day trip.  To them, I say, “Toda raba!” (Thank you very much!)

Shalom and blessings to all of you!

Touring Jerusalem

I apologize for not blogging for the past couple of days – the internet service at our hotel in Jerusalem was terrible.  Isn’t it ironic that I would have better internet service at a kibbutz in the Galilee area than I did in Jerusalem?

Anyway, I have two more blog posts for you – for Wednesday and Thursday in Jerusalem (we traveled all day on Friday).  Here is the blog for Wednesday:

We started the day early – leaving the hotel at 8:30 a.m.  Our first stop was in the Muslim quarter of the Old City, where we saw the ruins of the Pools of Bethesda.  Here, according to tradition, many of the sick in Jerusalem waited near the pools so that they could be healed.  The sick would wait until the pools would be “stirred” by means of a periodic angelic visitation (Scholars are uncertain as to whether this stirring was done by angels of God or angels of satan).  Jesus performed a documented miracle here when He healed a man who had been lame for 38 years – John 5:1-16.  Jesus performed this miracle on the Sabbath, which led to controversy with certain Jewish leaders of the time.  Interestingly, there is a church at this site, and we had the chance to go in and sing a few songs  – the acoustics were incredible, making us sound really good! It was a highlight for sure.

Next, we walked through the Muslim quarter on the Via Dolorosa, which means “way of sorrow”.  This is a path that Jesus took from Pontius Pilate’s place of judgment to the place of Jesus’ Crucifixion.  You would think that this would be a somber area where visitors could take their time and really soak in the experience of what we as Christians consider the most important part of our faith.  Well, if this is what you think, you are utterly wrong!  Since the Via Dolorosa is in the Muslim quarter, the path is filled with Arab shops, and the shops have extremely pushy and irreverent sales people.  In addition, the path is crowded with people from all walks of life.  The feeling is far from serene – it is irritating, frustrating, disconcerting, uneasy, unsettling, and other adjectives that I will not share with you.  Honestly, the Muslim quarter has a heaviness about it – I really felt a spirit of darkness here.

Regardless, we made our way through all of the “stations” – locations along the path where Theologians believe specific things happened while Jesus carried the Cross to Golgotha.  The path ends at the Church of the Holy Sepulcher.  The site is venerated as Golgatha (the Hill of Calvary), where Jesus was crucified and is said to also contain the place where Jesus was buried (the sepulcher). The church has been an important Christian destination since at least the 4th century, as the purported site of the resurrection of Jesus.  Control of the church, itself, is shared between several Christian churches and secular entities in complicated arrangements essentially unchanged for centuries. The church is home to Eastern Orthodoxy, Oriental Orthodoxy, and Roman Catholicism.

After lunch, we walked through the Jewish quarter to the Western Wall.  Almost instantly when we walked into the Jewish quarter, I felt more calm and the unsettled feeling of the Muslim quarter went away – very interesting!  We spent some time praying at the Wall, and then we went through the Rabbi’s Tunnel – underneath the surface of the Western Wall is the incredible Western retaining wall of the Herodian Temple which was completed in about 517B.C.  (Herod rebuilt Solomon’s Temple – Solomon’s Temple was built around 957 B.C. and was destroyed around 587 B.C.).

Unfortunately, we were unable to go to the Temple Mount due to August being the month of Ramadan for the Muslim faith (who control the Temple Mount).  Here is what I learned about Ramadan – More than a billion Muslims around the world abstain from eating, drinking, smoking, and sex from dawn to sunset during the month of Ramadan.  Fasting is one of the Five Pillars of the religion of Islam and one of the highest forms of Islamic worship. Abstinence from earthly pleasures and curbing evil intentions and desires is regarded as an act of obedience and submission to Allah as well as an atonement for sins, errors, and mistakes. Called Ramadan (or Ramazan), Muslims fast during this month from the moment when it first starts to get light until sunset. Just after breaking the fast, and before dinner, Muslims offer the fourth of the five daily prayers, which is called the Maghrib prayer. After dinner, Muslims go to their Mosques (which I will discuss in the next paragraph) to offer the Isha prayer, which is the last of the five daily prayers. The day ends with a special voluntary prayer, the Taraweeh, offered by the congregation reciting the Qur’an, the holy book of Islam.

After dinner (around 8:00 p.m.), a subset of our group, desiring a little adventure, decided to go to the Western Wall again, at night.  So, we walked from our hotel toward the Damascus Gate of the Old City (our hotel was located just a few blocks from the Damascus Gate).  The quickest way to the Western Wall was through the Damascus Gate which caused us to walk through the Muslim quarter (not my favorite place to begin with, and now we had to walk through it at night – during Ramadan!).  Not that we would stand out – but as we walked through, I felt like the only fire hydrant at a dog show (if you know what I mean!).  I was extremely relieved to make it to the Jewish quarter with Melinda, Amanda, and Shannon stuck to me like glue.  Again, I felt relief immediately as we entered the Jewish quarter near the Western Wall.  After spending time in prayer at the Wall, we decided to head back to our hotel.   As we headed back toward the Damascus Gate, literally a flood of Muslims began to come at us through the narrow streets of the Muslim quarter of the Old City!  We did not know it, but we had left the Western Wall at the exact time that the Muslims were going to their Mosque on the Temple Mount (as I discussed in the last paragraph, “to offer the Isha prayer, which is the last of the five daily prayers” during Ramadan).  To say that we were nervous would be the understatement of the year!  We walked for 15 minutes in single file through this flood of thousands of Muslims – talk about uncomfortable (I just thought that I was uncomfortable in the Muslim Quarter before this!).  By the grace of God, we made it out of the Damascus Gate and back to our hotel without incident – what a relief!  It took me about two hours to wind down!

Thus ended another eventful day in Israel!

Masada, Ein Gedi, & The Dead Sea

After all the happenings of yesterday, it was hard to get up and get moving this morning at 6:30 a.m (10:30 p.m. Abilene time – Monday night!).  However, we had lots more to see.

First, we went to Masada.  Here is some interesting facts about Masada:  “At the beginning of the Revolt of the Jews against the Romans in 66AD, a group of Jewish rebels overcame the Roman garrison of Masada. After the fall of Jerusalem and the destruction of the Temple (70AD) they were joined by zealots and their families who had fled from Jerusalem. With Masada as their base, they raided and harassed the Romans for two years. Then, in 73AD, the Roman governor Flavius Silva marched against Masada with the Tenth Legion, auxiliary units and thousands of Jewish prisoners-of-war. The Romans established camps at the base of Masada, laid siege to it and built a circumvallation wall. They then constructed a rampart of thousands of tons of stones and beaten earth against the western approaches of the fortress and in the spring of the year 74AD moved a battering ram up the ramp and breached the wall of the fortress.   Josephus Flavius dramatically recounts the story told him by two surviving women. The defenders almost one thousand men, women and children led by Eleazar ben Yair, decided to end their own lives, rather than be taken alive.”

Next, we went to Ein Gedi.  Ein Gedi is an oasis in the desert.  Here is some background on Ein Gedi:  “The Bible records that 3,000 years ago David hid from King Saul at Ein Gedi. When David spared the life of King Saul when King Saul went into the cave at Ein Gedi where David and his army were hiding (because Saul was the anointed of God).  Located on the Dead Sea’s western shore, Ein Gedi (“spring of the goat”) is a desert oasis with waterfalls, pools of water and two large streams. It is a hiker’s paradise with beautiful foliage, exotic birds and a range of wildlife, including rabbits, deer, and ibex.  Ein Gedi served as a water source during biblical times.  The spring begins to flow 656 feet above the Dead Sea. About a half-hour’s hike will take you to a waterfall and pool.”

The last stop of the day was the Dead Sea where we went floating – you can’t swim in the Dead Sea, you can only float.  It is the wildest feeling that I have ever experienced this was my second time.  The Dead Sea is approximately 450 meters below sea level (over 1,470 feet below sea level) – the lowest point on earth.

Again, it was awesome to experience all of this with my kids.  What a blessing!

Going Up To Jerusalem

Yesterday was a very special day.  We left our hotel on the Sea of Galilee at 8:30 a.m. and made our way to the the Southern end of the lake, where the Galilee spills into the Jordan River.  At this location of the Jordan River, an area has been established for baptisms.  In fact, while Melinda and I were visiting Israel in 2005, we both were re-baptized in the Jordan River (this was extremely powerful for me because it served as a statement that I had recommitted myself to serving Jesus Christ in a new, fresh, and better way).

As I said earlier, yesterday was very special – why?  Because I had the opportunity to re-baptize all three of my children! I know that I keep saying it in my blogs, but this was extremely powerful and meaningful!  My kids had committed themselves to following Jesus and had been baptized earlier in their lives, but  they wanted to re-commit themselves where Jesus Himself had been baptized.  How often does a dad get to make a significant life statement with his children?  This was one of those moments that Amanda, Drew, and Shannon will remember for the rest of their lives! I think I may have felt the same emotion that God felt when Jesus was baptized in the Jordan River, and He said, “This is my Son, whom I love; with Him I am well pleased” (Matthew 3:17).  All I can say is praise God for this opportunity!

As a side note, the Jordan River has little fish that really enjoy nibbling on manly leg hair.  My leg hair must have been like honey to them because they were nibbling away at me!  It was extremely hard for me to keep my composure while I was baptizing with these little fish feasting on my legs!

We left the baptismal area and headed south toward Jerusalem  On the way, we stopped at a site that Melinda and I had not seen before – Bet She’an.  This was an interesting site where both the Greeks and the Romans had established cities here at different times.  This site was amazing because virtually the entire city had been preserved.  The most interesting part of the this site was the preserved bathrooms from the Roman era – a man or woman (they did not have separate bathrooms) could sit between two stones to do their business and a sophisticated sewer system would take it away – very wild!

From Bet She’an we continued our journey to Jerusalem.  When we entered Jerusalem, we went immediately to the Mount of Olives.  Our guide gave us a briefing on the Mount of Olives and the old city of Jerusalem.  For those of you who have not been to Jerusalem, the old city is only a portion of Jerusalem – it is surrounded by a wall and it has four quadrants, the Christian quarter, the Jewish quarter, Armenian quarter, and the Muslim (or Arab) quarter.  The main feature of the old city is the Temple Mount – Solomon built the first Temple in 957BC (it only existed for a few decades), Herod the Great re-built the Temple in a greater form in 20BC , and Herod’s Temple was destroyed by the Roman’s in 70AD.  The Dome of the Rock (a Muslim mosque), which is what we see on the Temple Mount today, was erected by the Muslim ruler Abd el-Malik in 688-691AD.  This shrine was covered by a lead dome from 691 until it was replaced with a gold-colored covering in 1965. Because of rust, the anodized aluminum cover was again replaced in 1993 with a gold covering.

From the Mount of Olives, we went to the Garden of Gethsemane.  We had some quite time here to visit the church on this site and to consider what Jesus was going through while He was praying just prior to Judas betraying Him.  As I walked around on my own, I couldn’t help but think about the movie – The Passion of the Christ (Mel Gibson’s epic movie) – when Jesus was praying so desperately, His sweat was like blood.

With this, our day ended.  What a phenomenal day!

After coming to Israel in 2005, I really felt that my touring experience would be minimal – I thought that touring would be for my kids, not for Melinda and I.  Man, was I wrong.

We started out the morning by going to the Mount Beatitudes.  When I came in ’05, we did not go to the Catholic church located there, but this time we did.  Our guide led us to the grounds around the church where we sat together for some teaching concerning the Sermon on the Mount.  After his teaching (which was excellent), Melinda, Amanda, and Shannon went off by themselves for some personal, alone time while Drew and I went to the church.  As Drew and I walked into the church, we began to hear singing – four part harmony from a choir.  It was hymn, but not a hymn I had ever heard before, and on top of that, it was being sung in German.  A group of German Christians, who were on a tour, had decided to sing while they were in the church.  I am not sure if it was the acoustics of the church, the wonderful voices of the choir, or the fact that we were standing very near where Jesus gave the Sermon on the Mount, but it was a very, very powerful moment!  It was like the Spirit of the Lord came upon us and immediately brought a sense of peace Drew and me.  When the singing ended, I was very disappointed – if I knew how to speak any German, I would have requested more.

After our experience at Mount Beatitudes, we headed North to the Golan area of Israel – where I had not been in 2005.  We visited the ancient city of Dan.  While we were there, we saw ruins dating back to the time when Israel was separated (Israel in the North and Judah in the South), somewhere around 930 B.C. – so, we were looking at actual structures built more than 2,900 years ago by King Jeroboam (after King Solomon’s reign)!  Crazy, crazy stuff!  Our definition of old in Texas is nothing compared to Israel’s version of old!

Next, we visited a pagan site built to honor Greece and Alexander the Great.  It was a temple built for one of their gods – Pan.  The area was Caesarea Philipi.  This is also the area where Jesus led his disciples for some teaching – it is strongly believed that this was the site where Jesus asked His disciples, “Who do people think that I am?”  After some discussion, Jesus asked, “Who do you think I am?”  And Peter boldly responded, “You are the Christ, the Son of God.”  Jesus declared that Peter was the rock and He would build His church “on the rock.”  Honestly, this area had a strange feel to it, but knowing that Jesus had used this area for teaching was somewhat comforting.

Finally, we drove back to the Galilee area and visited Capernaum.  I had visited Capernaum in ’05, and I was anxious for my kids to see this important site.  Capernaum is the home town of Peter, and experts are 99% sure that Jesus spent some time here and, in fact, healed Peter’s mother-in-law at this site (our guide made the joke, “this is why Peter denied Him 3 times”” – ha, ha, ha).  It was rewarding to watch as my children began to put the pieces of scripture together and to not only hear history, but to see it!

We had another fabulous day in Israel, and I pray continued blessings over you and our company!

Hand In Hand

Today, we went to Shabot service at Ohalei Rachamim (Tents of Mercy) today – this is the Messianic Jewish congregation that Beltway supports.  It was a wonderful service and Randy Turner gave another powerful message concerning the family.  While we were there, four of the youth counselors from the kids camp were recognized for their involvement in something called Hand-In-Hand.  At the kids camp, I had a chance to meet these four outstanding youth counselors – the boys were Vanya and Maxim; the girls were Dasha and Sara.

I am sure you are wondering, “What is Hand-In-Hand”?  I am really glad you were wondering this because it is an incredible story.  Hand-In-Hand is a program involving believers in Christ from Israel and Germany.  It was established to bring youths from the two countries together in a way that would bring healing and forgiveness to the people.  Vanya, Maxim, Dasha, and Sara gave us their testimony regarding their recent trip to Germany.  They visited historical sites together including two concentration camps, including Auschwitz (where so many autocracies occurred to the Jewish people at the hands of Nazi Germany).  As part of the Hand-In-Hand program, each Israeli believer was paired with a German believer, and they walked through these sites together “hand-in-hand”.  When you think about this concept, it is really heavy; in fact, it is hard to humanly comprehend and only possible through Christ.

For such young people, they showed a tremendous amount of maturity.  They really understood the importance of what they were doing.  As they told the stories of what they had learned about the Holocaust before, during, and after their trip, you could see how the whole process had impacted their lives.  One of the last pictures they showed us was a picture of all 8 participants in the program carrying an Israeli flag and a German flag tied together – very powerful!  Matthew 18:21 & 22 came to mind, “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’  Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.‘”

After Shabot service, we made our way to the Sea of Galilee, which, as most of you know, is a fresh water lake (not really a sea).  We got on a boat and had a time of worship while we were boating around the Galilee.  It was a wonderful experience, and our team really bonded while we were there.  Experiences like this are hard to explain, but when you consider where we were and the fact that Jesus had done so much in the Galilee area, it is easy to see how Christians can grow closer together.

Until tomorrow – Shabot Shalom!

Our Last Day At Camp

WOW!!! Our last day at kids camp was incredible!  Let me give you some details – warning: this could be a longer blog than usual.

The day started off with Sasha’s motor oil coffee – outstanding as usual!  Then at 9:30 a.m., the fun began.  Our first group of campers came through – the 10 and 11 year old boys.  After “the Baseball Prayer,” we decided to play a game – more or less playing a real game.  We had the two best players pick teams (12 total boys played), the coaches helped in the field, and we gave each team 10 minutes to score as many runs as possible – we were able to play 3 innings like this, with the time we had.  It was so much fun – the boys really got competitive – talking smack, helping to coach their own players, encouraging each other to hit the ball, telling the players in the field the appropriate play to make, etc.! It was amazing to me that what we had shown them over just a few days stuck.  It was extremely rewarding to watch these guys, who had an extremely limited knowledge of baseball (if any at all), really playing the game I have loved and played my whole life (in fact, I cannot remember ever not knowing how to play baseball).  At the end of our time, they didn’t want to stop playing – that felt reeeeeeeaaaaalllllly good!

The rest of the morning, the Abilene baseball “geniuses” worked with the younger boys and girls and the 13 and 14 year olds.  While these groups did not have the liveliness of the older boys, our time together was fun and extremely worthwhile.

After lunch, the coaches got to hit the baseball – with a little batting practice.  It has probably been 8 years or more since I have hit a baseball – I had to come all the way to Israel to get my swing back!  It feels awesome to crush a fastball!  I am sore today, but man was it fun to hit!

By the time all the adults had hit, it was almost time for free time – where the kids got to choose what they wanted to do.  We had 16 kids come back to play baseball.  So, we cranked up another game!  Once again, Paul Lovelace would be proud – 7 hours of baseball (only breaking to eat and drink some water)!

Totally exhausted from the day, we went to dinner and then to our evening service.  Honestly, I thought I would be falling asleep, but Randy Turner spoke (with an interpreter who translated into Hebrew) with a passion to these 70 young people.  At the end of his brief message, he had all of the leaders (Abilenians and Israelis) stand up around the room, and he told the kids that if Jesus had been speaking to them and if they were asking, seeking, and knocking, then they should go talk to one of the leaders that they felt comfortable with – allowing us, as leaders, to pray for them.  As soon as Randy’s words were interpreted, all 12 of the older boys got up and went directly to our baseball leader (Thomas McAdams).  I joined him, and we prayed for these young men.  It was extremely moving – several of the boys had tears rolling down their face.  I cannot remember being so touched by an experience like this.  As I told Thomas, it is hard to believe that anyone can say that youth sports do not impact the lives of young men.  I am certain that several of these young men somehow and in some way saw Christ in us – and for me, that’s what it is all about!

But for me, it did not stop there.  After leaving Thomas, one of the boys – Natanel (we would say Nathaniel in the U.S.) – came up to me and gave me a big hug (he was the one boy that I really felt a bond with at camp – he was competitive on the field and quite off the field.  He had a fire about him that I loved.  I tried to give him encouragement all week, and we just clicked).  With tears in his eyes (and in mine) and in his broken English, he said thank you and asked if I would pray for him.  Once again, I was blown away.  As I prayed over him, I couldn’t help but thank God for allowing me to have this opportunity.  It was extremely moving and even more powerful!

Then, I saw several young men, and one in particular, come up to Drew; I saw several young ladies come up to Amanda (who led dance classes); I saw several young ladies come up to Shannon (who had been all over camp); and I saw several kids come up to Melinda (kids camp is Melinda’s world!).  It was sooooo rewarding to see that my family was doing something special, something worthwhile, something eternal.  It was a very, very proud moment for me as a father!

As the service ended and as we said our goodbyes, I continued to watch the young men we had had the privilege to teach baseball.  They had been touched by the Holy Spirit, and we were part of it, and the best part – we were blessed in the process.  What an incredible experience!!!  Thank you God for allowing me to see what I saw, and thank you Thomas for leading our baseball crew “in a way that glorified Him”.

Wednesday At Camp

The day started off pretty much as usual. However, I haven’t told you about Sasha’s (Craig Loper’s Israeli brother) special coffee that I have had each morning.  It is some type of Iranian coffee with cardamom – it is really tasty coffee until the last few sips, and you see this ugly, thick motor oil looking stuff in the bottom of your cup.  Sasha says it is good for the heart – I am not so sure about its nutritional value, but trust me, you do not want to argue with this guy!

The craziest thing happened this morning in baseball. Obviously, we continued to struggle with baseball terms, but something just as funny happened.  Our leader wanted each group to recite in English (we are trying to help them learn more English words) what he termed “the baseball prayer” before they could bat (they love to bat and will do most anything to have a chance to hit).  The baseball prayer goes like this, “Thank you God for baseball.  Help me to play in a way that will bring glory to You.”  It is a simple prayer that we thought would help the kids speak some English.  So, our first group of boys came in at 9:30 a.m., full of excitement, and we got them together at the first of our session so that our leader could explain what we would be doing during the session.  He lined up someone to translate, and he said, “Today, we are going to do something different.  Before you can bat you will have to say, in English, ‘the baseball prayer’.”  And in unison, the 12 boys said out loud, “DA BASBOL PRAYER”.  It was hilarious, all of the Abilenians standing around just busted out in laughter.

Our experience, here at camp, continues to be a blessing – to me and my family, to our team of true servants, and to the Israeli kids.  We are seeing God work in many ways.  The results of what we are doing for these kids will, most likely, not be felt or seen for many years, but hopefully, we are planting seeds that will grow and produce a harvest in the future. Please pray that a harvest of good fruit will be generated from our efforts here.

“That The Way Baseball Go”

The great philosopher and manager of the Texas Rangers, Ron Washington, had this quote (“That the way baseball go”).  We thought about this quote often while teaching baseball to the Israeli kids here at camp.

Baseball has not “caught on” in Israel – it has grown in popularity, but it has been a very slow growth.  In fact, one of the Israeli camp counselor’s told me today that the only sport offered is soccer – he told me later that he would have loved to have played American football and baseball, but he couldn’t.  Consequently, the kids that Drew and I, along with 2 others from Abilene, were working with today had never even thrown a ball – maybe a rock, but rarely if ever a ball – nor had they ever caught a ball.  The man from Abilene who is leading this baseball education warned me, as I tried to contrive a series of drills and possible ways to help them improve their baseball skills.  His warnings were “spot on”.  These kids were eager to learn baseball, but most of them had never put on a glove or picked up a bat!  It was crazy.

So, as you can imagine, all my practice plans and grandios ideas went out the window.  We had to focus on the very basics – “this is a glove, what hand do you throw with? The glove goes on the opposite hand.  Here is how you throw a ball.  Here is how you catch a ball. Etc.”  And to complicate matters, everything we said had to be translated into Hebrew and some Russian!  Of course, the kids understood some English, but not as much as we needed them to understand.  Some interesting baseball dialog that does not translate well and leads to confused looks:

  1. I am going throw you some “grounders”.
  2. Now, I am going to toss you some “pop flies”.  (If you had never heard of baseball, what would you think we meant by “pop flies”?
  3. David (pronounced “Dauveed”), you’re “on deck”.
  4. “Foul ball”
  5. You need to “touch” the bases. (We had a kid actually touch first base with their hand!)

This is just a few of issues we ran into.  The biggest problem that I had was when a boy who spoke Hebrew was standing on first base and a boy who spoke Russian was batting.  The Russian speaking boy hit the ball on the ground toward second base and the Hebrew speaking boy did not run to second.  So, we had two boys who spoke different languages standing on first base with me trying to explain what had happened in English while using baseball terms!  It almost caused an international incident!  But fortunately, we had a 10 year old boy who could speak English, Russian, and Hebrew who settled the matter!

We taught and played baseball for almost 6 hours today – Paul Lovelace would have been proud!  It is 11:21 p.m. in Israel, and I have got to get prepared for 6 more hours of baseball tomorrow.  I have so much more to tell you, but it will have to wait until tomorrow.

My last thought – I am really being stretched this week, and I cannot imagine having more fun!  I challenge the rest of you to look for opportunities to stretch yourself – it is the greatest of all Blessings!!!

Shalom!

Camp Israel Begins

Yesterday, Monday, was filled with lots of anticipation.  We spent the morning completing our preparations for our 70 or so campers (2nd grade through 8th graders).  When they arrived at about 11:30 a.m., we were ready.

I started off working in the kitchen – because baseball teaching did not begin until Tuesday morning.  We had to prepare meals for the 70 campers, the 20 Israeli counselors, and the 33 of us from Abilene (123 meals in all if you are counting).  The kitchen work was structured and organized, which I really liked.  And as a side benefit, I really got to know some people that I did not know very well.  Our first meal – lunch – went off without a hitch.  However, we did learn a few things that helped us improve for the next meal.

In the afternoon, I got to go shopping with Randy Turner (our leader from Beltway Park) and our driver/handyman/interpreter/maintenance guy/man-of-many-talents (essentially, Israel’s version of our very own Craig Loper).  Grocery stores are considerably different here.  The grocery store was extremely customer friendly, but the other shoppers were not.  There were stocking clerks on every aisle, who were prepared to restock the shelf as soon as a customer removed an item – it was crazy!  The whole store was immaculately clean – they had a floor cleaning person who rode a device that looked like a riding lawn mower.  When we checked out, the checkout clerk would not even look at us (we noticed that all the clerks did the same thing) – it was very customer unfriendly.  One last thing, the grocery store had no produce – we had to go to a separate store for produce!

The afternoon and evening at camp were good – as we got to know the campers and the Israeli counselors better. I worked in the kitchen again – I am certainly gaining a new respect for restaurants and commercial kitchens!

So, the question is what am I learning here?  Several things:

  • How to submit to authority (the Israeli leaders of the camp) – when the authority is not completely organized (Randy keeps reminding me that this camp is so much better than the prior 3 – I am thanking God that I was not here for the prior 3!).
  • My wife and kids are really good at interacting with new people.  In addition, they are all exceptional with kids – and the kids love them!
  • How to let God work through my lack of experience, lack of ability, and lack of patience.
  • How to “go with the flow” (this is the most difficult lesson – for whatever reason, I like to be in charge!)

I got started with baseball training today.  It has been an incredible morning! I will update you on our progress here in my next blog – stay tuned!

Joffa/Tel Aviv & Camp

Yesterday, we had an opportunity to visit Joffa and Tel Aviv – these two cities are essentially together.  Most of our time was spent on the beach – interestingly, and most people do not realize it, Israel has a wonderful beach area right on the Mediterranean Sea.  It was enjoyable to watch Israeli citizens enjoying their Shabot and spending time with friends and family casually on the beach.  Other than eating some really great Israeli food at a couple of fantastic seaside restaurants, we did nothing else but relax and enjoy the day!

Today is Sunday.  We have just completed a full day of preparing for 70 kids (2nd graders through 8th graders) who are coming to a summer camp tomorrow through Friday.  We spent most of the day setting up chairs, moving chairs, removing chairs, and moving chairs again!  Seriously, we had a “chair dance” going until noon.  After lunch, Drew and I helped set up a massive cover over an area we plan to use for games and activities outside.  To top off the evening, I played ultimate frizbee for the first time!  It was incredibly fun (even though I know I will be sore tomorrow).  We played with several of the camp counselors who are Israeli citizens and Messianic Jews – ultimate frizbee was a great way to get to know new people.

It seems like we have been spending time getting acclimated to Israel and the new time zone for the past two days.  However, tomorrow we will be getting down to business.  All of us from Abilene are excited about kicking the camp off tomorrow, and we are anticipating what God is going to do in the days to come.  I am sure that I will have some interesting developments to report in the near future.

Shalom!

The Joys of Air Travel!

Well, it is Saturday morning here in Israel – about 8:00a.m. – that would be midnight in Abilene!  My body has adjusted to the new time pretty quickly since I do not sleep well on airplanes.

Speaking of airplanes, many of you may remember my airline experiences when we went to Maui for our incentive trip – I had total airplane delays of 12 hours!  Yesterday, we only had 3 hours of delays – I am not holding my breath, though, because we still have to travel home!  Trust me, I am not looking for a new world delay record!

Our journey started when we arrived at the DFW Airport at 7:10 a.m. on Thursday, July 28th.  Here was our schedule: DFW to Atlanta (layover), Atlanta to NYC (layover), NYC to Tel Aviv, Israel (10 hour flight).  By the time, we arrived at the camp where we are staying just outside Tel Aviv, it was 5:10 p.m. (Israel time) on Friday – 26 hours of travel!!!  Israel time is 8 hours ahead of Abilene time for future knowledge.

On our way to camp, we stopped at a grocery store to get a few supplies, and they would not allow us to come in because it was too close to Shabot – the Sabbath.  As you know, Israel is a Jewish state, and so they celebrate the Sabbath on Saturday (actually, sundown Friday to sundown Saturday).  During Shabot, almost all businesses shut down and work virtually ceases (kind of like America used to be on Sunday, decades ago).  We settled in at camp, had a delicious meal of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, tomatoes, and olives, and after tossing the baseball around with Drew, we went directly to bed.

Today, we will be touring in Joffa (also called Joppa – you can read about what Peter did in Joppa in Acts 9:40-43).  I will report more tomorrow.  For now, I’m signing off – thanks for your prayers and for your interest in the Seale Family journey to Israel!

Itching For Israel

Hello, my name is Kris.  It has been about 18 months since my last blog.  {But I am back in the saddle!!!!}

Melinda and I are taking all 3 of our kids on our last, true family vacation to Israel.  As most of you know, my oldest daughter, Amanda, is getting married in December.  So, the dynamics of my family are changing.  We are going to Israel to assist with a kids camp for 5 days and to do some touring for 7 days.  It promises to be a very rewarding trip.

Anyway, I will try to blog often so that I can give you a taste of what we are doing and how God is using us.  I would like to ask each of you to pray for us and our team as we embark on this journey.

Shalom. Kris