Author: Vanessa Callari

Touchdown Tejas

Hello from my living room in Abilene, Texas! I was hoping to write my last post from Connecticut, but our four days there were filled with wedding festivities. The bride and groom were gracious hosts, patiently chauffeuring guests who came from far off places like the Cayman islands and California! It was a sweet reunion for my husband and his college buddies, and of course they all enjoyed meeting Mrs. Scooter πŸ™‚Β Our travels back to Texas were perfect compared to our last flying experience, and we arrived back in Abilene with some time to recuperate before heading back to work.

Such a beautiful wedding for Victor and Danielle Moya!

In a previous post, I mentioned that I was going to write about how the artist in me has rested. I really thought I would be sketching more, trying some things new things, but I really didn’t do as much. I was a little surprised at myself, but what I didn’t realize is that part of me needed to rest just as much as my body did. Instead of setting goals, I pulled out my sketched book whenever I felt the urge to do so. I did draw outside, sketch something different, try a new medium, but I didn’t overdo it.

A house in the forest of Virginia

You can’t see it, but there’s a lake at the bottom of the hill. I just had to try and capture it!

I found more renewal in finding inspiration again. The biggest driving force for an artist is inspiration. I can’t just pull ideas out of thin air. They almost always come from somewhere, something, or someone. I’m often inspired by other artists as well. The great Pablo Picasso once said, “Good artists copy; great artists steal.” While we don’t mean to plagiarize, we artists often rely on each other in some capacity to keep the flame burning.

The two main things that absolutely enamored me during our travels were the architecture in the north east and the work of great artists like Degas, Monet, and Picasso at the Albright-Knox museum. There is so much history in places like Buffalo and Connecticut, and the way houses were built reflects some of that. I took as many picture as I could and I plan on doing a series of ink sketches to frame in our home. And of course, how can you not be amazed standing in front of an original masterpiece that’s larger than life?! Jackson Pollock is one of my favorite abstract expressionists, and it was incredible to see one of his pieces with my own eyes. I walked away from this museum remembering why I love art so much.

Convergence, one of Pollock’s most famous paintings, is almost 8 feet tall and nearly 13 feet wide!

Old house in Niagara Falls, NY

And so ends my Sabbatical. I’m well rested, stress free, and ready to be back at work! I’m extremely thankful that FD gave me this unique opportunity. Everyone I talked to about why I had so much time off was completely amazed that an employer would do such a thing. A big thank you to Kris, the executives, and my fellow graphic designers and department for covering my butt while I was gone!

Status: Available

As we wrap up our time in Buffalo, I’m thankful that we made ourselves available to our family here. They live very far from us, and the few times I’ve spent with them have been short lived.Β This week was different. We took our time and planned outings and dinners with as many family groups as possible. We even drove to Canada (it’s not that far)!

Tea time after swimming, and before coloring with the twin cousins in Canada!

Niagara Falls from the US side. Yes, the Canadian side is spectacular as well πŸ˜‰

Uncle Scooter is looking for Bella. Can you find Bella’s shoes? πŸ™‚

Enjoying some frozen custard with cousins!

Being available to hangout and have dinner was one aspect of our time here, the other was being available to serve. We were hoping to do some service projects for Caleb’s home church, but when that didn’t work out, we offered to help my in-laws with some work in the basement. Caleb helped his dad with some manual labor, and I offered to help clean and declutter. Just a few days after Caleb started his work, his stepmom injured her knee, making it very difficult for her to walk and bend. We all pitched in around the house to make sure she didn’t have to worry about things while she rested. I helped out in the garden, did some laundry, and made dinner one night.

The garden that Dad and June have worked so hard on.

Boxes to store, donate, and get rid of!

I also made myself available to help my sister-in-law. She has two little ones, a very active almost three year old and a growing four month old, and that’s more than enough! I spent two days with her, Caleb was there for one, and I’m so glad we were able to keep her company and help out. Moms give so much of themselves, and I wish I was more available to help my friends who are young mommies too.

Our sweet nieces!

How much have I missed out on because I’m not available? In a culture where productivity is an idol, perhaps even my idol, how do I make myself more available? How do I alter my current life choices (how I use the time God has given me) to reflect what truly matters to me (relationship with God, family, friends)? This is what I will continue to reflect on and hopefully this will help shape aspects of my life post Sabbatical. Until next time!

Hello from Buffalo

It’s 75 degrees here, a far cry from the mid summer mornings in Texas. This is my third time to visit Buffalo (New York), but it’s Caleb and I’s first time back as a married couple to see his family. It took a little longer than necessary to get here (all our flights on Saturday were delayed because of bad weather), but we took advantage of the time sitting in the airport and did a lot of reading. I honestly believe that my mood stayed positive because my thoughts were focused on being thankful. More on that in a bit!

Before I say more about Buffalo, let me summarize our time in Virginia and share some insights. If you ever have the opportunity to visit Virginia or the east coast for that matter, you need to do it! I have always been a tropical beach bum, but the mountains also have an incredible way of calming the soul and reminding me of how small I am. I knew that our time in Virginia with Caleb’s mom and stepdad would be fun and relaxing, but it became the reset button that I was hoping for during this Sabbatical.

Riding the ski lift!

Scenic overlook with Mom and David

Massanutten Resort in McGaheysville, VA

We had incredibly beautiful weather, lots of rest, lots of quiet time, and lots of play time. I also decided to focus my prayers and thoughts on being thankful. Reading 1,000 Gifts has made me realize that I spend too much time asking God for things and not enough time praising and thanking Him for the things He has blessed me with. I know God encourages us to come before Him with all our needs, but sometimes I miss out on the joy that’s found in the here and now when I forget to give thanks. My petitions and concerns often have to do with the future, and I forget to recognize the good that’s right in front of me. I miss the moment. So for an entire week, I did nothing but pray prayers of thanksgiving, and I found myself feeling incredibly humbled. God has given me so much to be thankful for!

So here I am, enjoying a beautiful summer morning at my in-laws house and preparing for the rest of the week. We have some service projects lined up, dinners with relatives, and some sight-seeing to do. I’m particularly excited about the art museum, which I will write more about when I blog about how the artist in me has indulged in this Sabbatical.

I shall end with some sweet pictures of our time with cousins and nieces πŸ™‚ Until next time!

Dad and June’s garden

Finally got to meet cousins Jessie and Chelsea and Caleb’s niece, Mackenzie!

Baby cousin, Nora <3

Our niece, Isabella at the zoo!

Didn’t take long for Bella to pass out. Uncle Scooter’s got the magical touch!

Love these cuties!!!

‘Nutten but Thanks

Hello from Massanutten in beautiful Virginia! We have family that live only a few hours from here, which made it the perfect rendezvous point for a short family vacation and anniversary getaway (two blissful years on 7-11!) Aside from the chance to see family, we came here for the trees! Ha! But seriously, I can’t get enough of the mountains and the tall things that constantly have me staring up at the sky and thanking God for the chance to get out of the desert of west Texas πŸ™‚

I’ve spent this past week reflecting on things that I’m thankful for, courtesy of the book One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp. Here are some of those things that also capture what this first Sabbatical week has gifted me:

5. Celebrated my stepfather-in-law’s 50th birthday. We could’ve partied harder, but he started a new job on Monday, which was an answered prayer.

4. This week, we get to enjoy two things we do not have: a dishwasher and cable! Perfect timing for Wimbledon πŸ™‚

3. I get to swim, play tennis, mini golf, tube down a hill, and hike with my adventurous husband!

2. God has kept us and my family safe. My parents and sister were rearended on their way to DFW on Saturday. Everyone is fine, little damage to the car, but my sister just got this car after her first was totalled in another accident several weeks ago. She then got a ticket after running a stop sign at the airport. It was a rough day, but everyone is ok.

1. I have a tiny but peaceful back deck to relax on, reflect, draw, and read. Gerard the groundhog likes to visit me everyday πŸ™‚

Until next time!